Your partner deserves to know.Īlthough some couples enjoy having raunchy sex, you'd be wise to talk to your partner before you engage in such behaviour. Something as simple as "I'm going to let go," will suffice. If you're going to let go – and this applies even to women – whether during oral sex or intercourse, you need to tell your partner beforehand. Not warning your partner before you climax
If you take too long and can only ejaculate via manual stimulation, do your best to get your partner to orgasm and then they can return you the favour.Ħ. To avoid this, spend a lot more time on foreplay (this will help men as well as women). Too soon and you may leave your partner unsatisfied too late and it might leave your partner feeling as if they're pumping iron at the gym. You need to have good control on your muscles to ensure that you can ejaculate at an appropriate time. Chocking them or hindering their ability to breathe will anyway kill the moment and any chances of some good action. But when you're lying on top of them, you have to be careful not to drop your weight on them. Gently caressing these areas will help excite your partner further in turn, increasing the chances of them pleasuring you back.Įven if you're a girl! It's okay to lose yourself in the moment every once in a while and go crazy on your lover. Genitals are great, no doubt, but you should definitely pay attention to other parts of your lover's body and focus for some time on their entire body – knees, wrists, back and stomach are highly erogenous zones for men as well as women. So make sure your partner is fully excited before you bite their ear, shoulders, neck or any other part of their body.ģ. While many people enjoy an aggressive partner, biting any part of their body before they are aroused may lead to pain and discomfort (and might even lessen the chances of any further action ) or simply scare them off.